Simple Healthy Love

Teaching you how to create intimacy, connection & attachment using relationship science.

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Please excuse my prolonged Mental Health Break. I’ll be back in business in a few months once I feel better. In the meantime, please enjoy the current content, and you’re welcome to send a question that I will get to once I’m feeling better.

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psychotherapy, therapy, relationship science, psychotherapist

Hi, I’m Julia A psychotherapist &

relationship

blogger from Toronto Canada

Using relationship science and my experience as a therapist, I’m here to answer your dating, love, and relationship questions.  I’m here to help you make educated dating decisions to increase your chances of ending up in a healthy romantic relationship. 

Recent Blog Posts
How To Break A Trauma Bond
How To Break A Trauma Bond

My girlfriend used to be fun, sweet and beautiful. Now she’s emotionally abusive but I can’t seem to leave the relationship.

How to Manage Triggers While You’re on a Romantic Vacation
How to Manage Triggers While You’re on a Romantic Vacation

How do my boyfriend and I manage our quirks so we don’t drive each other crazy on our one week vacation?

Why Didn’t He Ask For A Second Date?
Why Didn’t He Ask For A Second Date?

I went on a great date, and he keeps texting me but hasn’t asked me out again. What should I do?

Can I Date Someone I’m Not Attracted To?
Can I Date Someone I’m Not Attracted To?

I’m not sure if I can be romantically attracted to the woman I have been seeing for the past couple of months, but I do not want to lose the relationship.

Why You Should Wait For The “At Home Date”
Why You Should Wait For The “At Home Date”

I’m uncomfortable going to a new guy’s house on date number two. Am I overreacting?